2010- We went to Avatar 3D and had a camp fire on January 17..it was 40 degrees. I was heading up to Traverse City and Dave had a practice with Bryan Lubeck (he was driving then). He was only taking the study drug.
2011- I went to The King's Speech with the other Makis, the Kings and Lesters. Some of us got together and went through old pictures talking about Dave's Spectrum band days. I went to Czars with friends and saw one of Dave's favorite groups. And the dogs and I had a campfire in the snow.
Tonight I went to Lori's Place to a grief support group meeting. I mostly listened. There were people in all stages of grieving. I just thought it would be good to know more people that really understand losing a spouse. I think I'll keep going and I'm sure it will help me. One woman talked about how she doesn't go out with any friends. So I realize, again, that I have so many wonderful friends who listen and remember Dave with me. Love you all and time for bed.
peace, love, groove
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We do Love you Lee, this is like riding a bike for the first time when you finally got the balance and then could not not do it, you are testing those waters. Music is a community & Dave was a big part of that and most people don't have that in their lives, like being in the cast of a play so you are very lucky there. I am working on getting out of the dark cloud mode with Dave so instead of being sad I am happy for knowing him & cherish the legacy & music.
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